Be warned, this is a tltr post but gllty triggered me.
I had this friend who was dating this really hot chick. Super hot chick. Anyways, she ended up leaving his ass in this Dirtball city and went off to Uni. While there, she began to experiment with her sexuality and got involved with a girl.
So, she was having a gay relationship but she was still into guys too. So technically, my friends Ex was bisexual. Anyways, this girl she started seeing was 100% gay. She was just into the same sex. She wasn't anything like my friends Ex either, she was more like a Tom-boy. She had her hair cut super short, she only wore Basketball shorts and rocked jerseys. We used to joke and say that our friends Ex didn't actually become "bi" because we thought of it as her being with just another guy. We used to joke and say that it would be like one of us turning around and saying "Hey, I'm gay..." and then dating a transwoman...
Anyways, fast forward 3 months and this girl my friends Ex is seeing makes another announcement. That being she identifies as a man and for all intents and purposes she's now a "transman" or whatever label u wanna put on it now and we feel like fuckin prophets.
I feel like the idea of a gender is becoming more and more ambiguous because of culture and language. I do believe there is a huge difference between gender identity and gender sex. Just because you're biologically a man doesn't mean that you're mentally one. Psychology 101 tells us there is a subconscious and conscious mind. There were new theories on the mind that said that every male and female has a female and male counterpart. Supposedly this personality can be repressed and that would sure as hell explain a lot. I mean, we all technically started off as the same gender (technically female) and later on in our development our sex organs either formed externally (male) or internally (female).
So, my point is; if there's CLEARLY a difference between gender identity and gender sex (biological gender), then what is the point of altering ones gender? I don't mean this as an insult to anyone who is Trans either. I am in full support of LBGT rights/members, I am just curious. Especially with how risky the procedure is but more importantly to go along with my point. If there's clearly a difference between the two and we should be able to see and agree with that, then why do that? Could a man who identified as a woman still dress, talk and just overall behave the same?
Like let's say I was born a guy and identified as a woman. Always knew in my head that I was one. Couldn't I just live my life like that? Couldn't I just rock my Jean shorts, band t shirt and bad hairline just as is it was? And someone who loved me for me, my personality, my identity came along and swept me off my feet? What if it was a gay woman too? She fell in love with my identity and said "idc about ur big fat cock! Hairline? Who cares! I love u, shelia!"
What if it was a straight man who fell in love with my hypothetical alternate self? Totally straight too. Only dated women is whole life, not an ounce of "gayness" and one day he meets me, falls in love with me, my personality, my identity and he says "idc about ur big fat cock! Hairline? Who cares! I love u, shelia!" And I going on living like that my whole life.
Hope yall see what I'm saying. Not trying to insult anyone but I feel like our culture/society is so confusing. The same people who say to be comfortable in ur skin and not let anyone get to u and be happy with how u were born are the same people who fully support someone getting a sex change. For example, like myself lol.
I was just always curious, hope I didn't offend anyone :D