I think you might have misunderstood what I was trying to get at. Maybe I should have been more blunt. Sorry about that. My point was, they are allowed to exclude people like how we are allowed to exclude people whether a person is autistic or not. People can exclude others for any reason at all and start their own little groups if their interests or experiences differ. That’s what makes us human.

Well yes and also no. There are discrimination laws in this country which means technically you cannot just exclude anyone from a group - but people do and the law does allow for "justified exclusion", which I presume this charity have successfully argued in order to get their funding etc.

I know it goes against my own views but yes, I did think I was being over sensitive and maybe more people would tell me wtf, no they can exclude who they want LOL