There is nothing wrong about trying to get a high profile match

I never said what she did was wrong. It's just that I am not someone like that and is a major red flag for me personally, thats all.

Have you ever even remotely considered dating an ugly woman who is like super genius, very inspirational, has many common hobbies and is like an accomplished polymath?Did u even approach an ugly woman and asked her hobbies, or atleast said hi to them as a courtesy? Ever been friendly with them even for like a day?

Dude, I would kill to have someone like that. Who cares about looks when everything is so perfect. I think it is you who feels that way.

Ask yourself this question and if your answer is no. Then stop judging people... You wanted to score good genes, she wanted to score a happy family life.. Look in the mirror

If she said no.. She said no.... No need to rationalize her decision. That's the best way to get over any relationship.. Stop when she says no.. Don't rationalize that she is not good for you anyway.. It only drives hate and makes you look at each step of her and judge her along the path.

I think you have are looking at things wrong or you have some past trauma that is messing with the way you think. I dont hate her nor am I judging her. I only said, she is not one for me that's all. Why would I keep saying that she's a nice person and that I still want be friends with her?