Confidence and sense of humor are the two most important things in my opinion. 99% of the guys I’ve been with have had an athletic body type but I actually was with 1 guy that was overweight. He had confidence, he made me laugh and he didn’t make a big deal about his size so neither did I. It’s really not a problem unless you make it a problem. I did get a little bit of shit from my friends at first like why you dating a fat guy but I told them talk to him and be around him and you’ll understand why. Outside perception will most definitely deter some girls from pursuing a relationship but I can guarantee if you be yourself and move with confidence you will have no problem finding a girlfriend. You just have to be willing to put yourself out there and possibly go outside your comfort zone.