What was a sexual thing you tried out with your SO and really improved your sex life?

I'm a very petite woman. 5'0 and 104 lbs. I don't really have boobs to cup up and hold and fortunately my butt makes up for it and the man I love is an ass man. But anyway, I've always been quite self conscious about my breasts but recently, he has been licking me there and rubbing his penis on my nipples and I felt soo amazing. He always said he likes my boobs and tends to pinch them but he went above and beyond playfully that he hasn't ever within 3.5 years and made me incredibly wet. (Its the little things :) Literally.. hehe)

Side note, rim jobs are also the best. I guess we are both so open and comfortable in our relationship that we can laugh during sex and really experiment. He doesn't really let me lick his butthole as often but he enjoys doing that to me.

And lastly, threesomes and then some. Its not for everyone and no it hasn't always been this easy or comfortable. Our break up sort of helped in that I was able to explore and be open with my sexuality by myself too. And its remarkable that it turns both of us on to have a third or more. We love each other and I had to learn/realize that its just sex and fun because I too want to play with other women and he enjoys watching me give head to another man and DP (as I crave to please him with another woman) :)

Over all, we've had a history of circumstances that tried to ruin our relationship (unorthodox now rather) but it all just proved to us that we still can't get enough of each other. It brings me joy that together it feels like we light up a room when we are out in public AND together in the bedroom. We still frequently date each other (take each other out to dinner, make dinner for the other, see Star Wars together, spoil each other, etc. etc. ) and enjoy it more now than when we initially started dating! The break up last year did in fact help haha. Our relationship together is spiced up now for sure.

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