If you think I'm throwing a temper tantrum you clearly don't have kids.
You literally keep saying shit I already understand but then you totally miss my point. I'll put it in caps for you, my son says he does this with his friends and it works (hes 10). If you don't get it now then I don't think you ever will, I have to start dinner for the kid so this is my last attempt.
ISSUES ARE EXPECTED IN ANY GAME, BUT NOT MULTIPLE ISSUES THAT PREVENT A MAJORITY OF THE PLAYER BASE FROM GETTING TO PLAY 75% OF THE GAME (BECAUSE YES PVP IS 75% OF THIS GAME). I LISTED EARLY ACCESS GAMES THAT WERE MULTIPLAYER AND HAVE HAD LESS ISSUES THAN ABSOLVER. THEY'RE EARLY ACCESS, MEANING THEY'RE NOT FINISHED AND THEY'RE STILL BEING TESTED. THEY SHOULD HAVE LOADS OF ISSUES, BUT THEY HAVE FEWER CONCURRENT ISSUES THAN ABSOVLER AND IN ALL CASES, EXCEPT WARHAMMER, THEY HAVE BEEN OUT FAR LONGER.
THE MOST IMPORTANT POINT YOU'RE MISSING IS THAT ABSOVLER IS A GAME THAT REVOLVES SOLELY AROUND MULTIPLAYER, IT'S EVEN IN THE TITLE. IF YOU'RE NOT SLOW AS A SNAIL THERE'S LESS THAN AN HOUR OF ACTUAL NON PVP STORY. HAVING SOLID SERVERS SHOULD HAVE BEEN ONE OF THEIR HIGHEST PRIORITIES. CLEARLY IT WASN'T.
Enjoy your connecting to server simulator bud.