Okay you fucking ignoramus, im going to break this down for you because you've made me really fucking angry with your ignorance. This man had a hand in saving this young lady's life. Therefore, there will always be an unspoken power dynamic between the two of them in his favor. It is not healthy to trauma bond with people like this. Secondly, she had been an adult, at the point in this article, for roughly 2 years. She cannot even drink yet. This man has 22 years of adulthood on her. They are in completely separate peer groups, and in completely separate stages of their lives. Again, giving him a very large power dynamic over her. Regardless of hoe you break it down or defend it, *a 40 year old paramedic getting into a relationship with a 20 year old he helped save isn't fucking appropriate". I'm so sick of seeing gross old men get away with being gross old men all the time.