And that’s why girls go for guys like that. She say he’s being honest so she can’t fault him for himself. His demeanor is a surprise and refreshing, even if sinister. It’s aggressive. The most common bad boy. I find a lot of this type came from money. Then he treats her like crap and she gaslights herself to believing she brought it on herself so she’s deserves whatever behavior he punishes her with.

I got to watch these super dysfunctional relationships results after 10+years (if they lasted at all). It really isn’t pretty. It only gets worse as people get older. Be aware of who you choose. Especially if kids.

TL;DR when a potential partner tells you they are an asshole, believe them the first time