Cis guy here. I met her through dating apps and after a few weeks we had a date. When she showed up and started talking I was like "wtf, she is a trans!", but the date went great, turns out she is such a nice girl and I liked her a lot. I ended up kissing her later that night. But I went back home with a lot of questions in my head.

In the second date we ended up in her bed, I had no experience whatsoever with this kind of things (it was even the first time I touched breasts implants, go figure), I wasn't even sure she was a trans, but I could tell something wasn't totally alright down there. I was quite tense, I was thinking "omg this could be a game changer, you are having sex with someone who used to be a man, maybe".
Which was alright for me, but still not that simple to process that quickly. I had many issues to get an erection (it's usually easy for me to get hard). And I asked her to spoon each other and cuddle for a while.
At the end we did it and it was nice, not stellar but I enjoyed her, I gave her oral too (she didn't!).
At 2am I asked her if she was operated down there and she said that she didn't want to talk about it in that moment (we were both tired and sleepy and we had to wake up early the morning after).

Did date #3 and this time I was totally calm, I explored better down there and I can confirm that there is no cervix nor other glances. Sex was way better and I felt much better.

Then I had to move to another nation for a while, I will be back there in a few months and I'm still writing her every other day.

I really liked her and I know that we did not spent a lot of time together, but I would have liked some more transparency from her, what do you think about it?
A friend of mine told me it was even rude of mine when I asked about her clinical history the first night.