Insecure fuckboy isn’t a good description.

Honestly i see this kind of view coming from someone who hasn’t had a solid female influence in their life. Either by having a bad mom or bad experiences and examples of women who abuse, something unhealthy shaped your opinion. It’s exactly like when a woman grows up hating men because her dad didn’t exist and she was raped by a relative, etc.

You’re right that our individual experiences shape our perspectives, and I feel sorry that you’ve been robbed of an empathetic view on this subject. Because whatever you’ve been through to warrant a cold outlook on this matter had to have been painful and hard to navigate. Your view isn’t very popular for a reason, but you’re just being honest and that’s better than being lazy with your feelings.

The only way to cure a lack of empathy is exposure. I’ve been around men who had shitty moms who think that women are only equal when it comes to abuse. And I’ve seen them change as soon as they had daughters or met good women. Despite that, I know the argument you’re making and ive had these guys try to reason with me on it before. I know how you see shit.

The reality is women really are weaker and delicate - were easy to manipulate because we run on emotion and some of us get lost in our nature and can’t get ourselves out of bad situations. Men can run on their nature by being dominant and cruel.

Find some gentleness soon before you get too lonely.