adult adoption

Sure! It's kind of a long story. She and my dad knew each other when my dad was in the navy. They lived with each other, were best friends, and got together with each others friends but never actually got together. Then dad got discharged from the navy and moved back home without telling my mom where he went. Twenty-five years later, they find each other on facebook and begin talking again. Soon, they end up hooking up and my dad moves from Arkansas to Pennsylvania in one go. I ended up meeting her after she reached out to me since dad was hesitant to bring her up to me on Facebook. We talk about our interests, her travels, stuff like that. She then asked if I wanted to come visit. Now, my N eggdoner had a horrible grudge against my dad for leaving her when I was three because of her dysfunctional behavior and since they never really loved each other in the first place. I didn't see how the hell I was able to get down there. Last time I attempted to see my dad outside of my grandmother, she filled my mind with how he was a child molester and an abusive guy and scared me from seeing him. Mom ended up talking to my Ndoner and convinced her to fly me out for the first time. We honestly think the only reason for this is because my Ndoner thought she was rich and if she played nice she would get money from my dad. I ended up going to PA for the first time and I ended up asking her if I could move in after a couple of days there. She thought this was strange and asked me more about my home life. I let on about smaller things but not the bigger stuff because at the time I felt both ashamed of the events and there were some events I didn't even know they were wrong. I ended up flying back and flew back again a couple months later. My mom and I started to get closer, getting me new things as well as showing me around. She started noticing small health problems I had and became more curious, but couldn't do.

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