OK. First thing I have to say is that I'm not a Chad by any means but, in this case, I was Chad-like because I just didn't care. I didn't want to "date" any one of these females. I wanted to have sex and if they didn't that fine with me.

This was years ago and I started listening to Ross Jeffies tapes and reading about Speed Seduction. My conclusion about that system is that it is awesome at separating desperate betas from their hard earned cash with false promises of instantly available pussy. His system, as much as I recall of it, was to put the woman in a hypnotic state using "Connection, state, command". I can't say that it ever work like he says it did but I took away and used parts of the system that made sense to me.

Talk to women. I know that sounds dumb but you can't pick up women if you don't talk to them. There are some cases where Chads don't need to speak but that's not me. I've seen my older brother pick up women in bars just by looking at them. I can't do that. I need my mouth to do the work for me. So I developed the ability to talk to anyone, anywhere. Part of that ability is knowing when someone, for whatever reason, just doesn't want to talk to you. If I get that reaction, I don't bother. I learned to not take rejection personally. Who knows why she doesn't like me? Who cares?

I've gotten really good at talking to women and making some sort of connection really quickly. I listen to what they say, refrain it, and say it back to them. I also am not afraid to get right in there and dig emotionally. "So what's your deal? What did you want to be when you grew up? Oh a ballerina! Of course... you have such a graceful way you carry yourself. I can totally see that." I used questions to find out what they valued and then used NLP language (Neuro-linguistic programming) to change their emotional state. For example, if I describe something really horrific and stomach churning, you're going to experience those feelings to some degree if only minor in compared to reality. In the same manner, if I talk about something really exciting that is connected to something you deeply love, you're also going to get somewhat exciting. The theory here is that once you can take them on these emotional roller coasters with words you drive them into a sexual frenzy where they have no choice but to pounce on you. In reality, I think I developed my conversational skills. For awhile I used them everywhere. I made sure that when I got a haircut, the lady that did it would feel absolutely euphoric by the time I left just to see if I could do it. In lots of those cases, my goal wasn't to have sex but to see if I manipulate their mood.

One other thing I learned from Ross was to look for the "dogging bowl" look. That's the ability to determine when my shtick is actually working. I have this thing where I never want to force myself on anyone. I don't want isn't offered so I've never been much to overpower a woman with charm and lead her into sex that she may or may not have wanted. I only want women that really want me. Being about to pick up on clues that someone was interested in what I was saying allowed me to judge if I should continue. I absolutely refuse to try and game a female that isn't, on some level, interested in me. I don't fucking chase anyone and I have a hard "ONE STRIKE" rule.

Never, ever present yourself as a "friend" or orbiter. Never present yourself as something you're not. "Hey, let's get together to study. I can help you with math". In your head, you think, "study" means sex but in hers, she fucking heard study. That's where she put you because that's exactly what you said. I never do that. I say something like "I find you oddly fascinating. Is there someway we could spend more time getting to know you?" My compliments where never the things she'd heard before and ALWAYS genuine.

I'd like to say I used kinematic escalation but in all three of the above cases, I did everything with words. Since it was work, there wasn't an good way to do that without drawing attention to myself. When you're at work, you need to be aware of your reputation and their females. While you might look like a bit of cad, she'll look like a total whore.

I never took any of them on any kind of date except once I went to a concert with one but I didn't buy her ticket. Alcohol was never involved.

I guess the answer was I talked to them and got them excited.