I've been on and off ABF singles for a few years and signed up at 29yrs. I met a great guy similar in age locally for a short period. The pool is very limiting. From my own experience, it's an online pen pal world. That's nothing against the site most ‘kink’ sites can be like this. The guys I’ve spoken to have been polite. I’ve never had to hit the block button today.

The old insecure you must be a catfish if you're wanting to talk to me! Joke around get in there first. See if they can prove their not too. In all fairness opportunist can and do prey on the site and others. It does get tiresome when trying to genuinely look and faced with automatic pre-judgments.

The pool is very small, you’ll know within a month of signing up as it’s dependant on who appears locally to you. X