Dude, I saw your post history and saw that word bubble thing about your personality traits and it explained a lot. Lol.

Look, Se-doms are hardwired to act/react. Some types are hardwired to analyze things before anything (Ti-doms) or check in with their feelings (Fi -dom) and Se-doms are wired to instinctively respond to situations physically. That’s our response. We just do. If we are attractive, it’s because we’re physically competent and comfortable in our own bodies, we don’t second guess what we’re doing or why, and that level of self-assuredness is almost always attractive to most people around. So stop being a fish judging yourself by a monkey’s ability to climb trees and chill out. There are plenty of panty-dropping ISFPs around, go and ask them how to be more attractive.