I think what OP is saying is why couldn’t you do this without the medicine? How has the medicine made it easier for you to make this change and maybe why haven’t they had any HELP with the medicine.

There is a difference between having a medicine do the work for you and having the medicine help you. If it isn’t HELPING them make changes than it isn’t working. If it has helped people make changes than it is obviously made it easier for you on it versus off it.

People on this board are total assholes to others. The truth is, some people get zero benefit from the drug and they need to know that it isn’t their fault they aren’t being helped like you are, not meant to feel badly as I’m sure you have your whole life suffering from not being able to make those changes not on the medicine and being told your just lazy.