This ^ I feel like guys like this use it to try to get free sex too. "We are such gooddd friends right? You wanna totally blow me for free right, pal?!" As women we are used to guys "wanting to be our friend" to manipulate sex out of us. She already knows you want sex with her and her time, which you pay for. Why would she want to hang out with you for free?!

This is a little PSA for clients...Your providers are....*drumroll* fantasy providers. You know that little slice of heaven you get when you book? Yeah that's crafted and perfected by your providers. Her appearance, her attitude, her persona. In her personal life she can look/act/behave differently. She is putting on a performance for you, this is not real life. Do you think women wait around to pleasure men on the spot and be constantly dolled up and porno ready as well as being extremely friendly, sweet, seductive and horny?! No bro, we are people.

If you REALLY claim you want to be her friend has she ever asked anything of you, something you didn't want to do but did it anyway because you knew she'd like it? Have you honestly ever done her a genuine favor? Or tried to get to know her and be emotionally supportive genuinely (not trying to earn points or sex)? If not then you have your answer, you don't want her as a "friend" you just want freebies. Ngl once a client tries that it sours me. I don't ask them to do anything outside of my boundaries and professional requirements. I'm not asking them to clean my car, hold my hand or water my plants for free, nor should they ask for my time for free. Such as asking for them to emotionally support you is a mutual relationship. Most men don't want to do this in even vanilla relationships, which is why paying for it is so crucial otherwise we feel resentful AF of you being selfish and only taking.