I agree - kinks are great, and masturbation is fine, as long as you're engaging in it in a healthy way that feels true to who you are. My experience is that if you're in a mindset where you're doing something in a way that troubles you, abstaining from it for a time and revisiting it can be a healthy way to overcome it - hence nofap can be useful.

But everything after my first two paragraphs applies just as easily to not watching porn if you disagree with the whole reboot concept, and generally to seeking spiritual enlightenment, at least in my experience. I'm saddened a little by the downvotes, but I take it I must have missed the mark for you. I hope you find what you were looking for.