Vent: I have a "passive aggressive" attitude toward you because I am sick of asking for help cleaning the kitchen. You said Thursday that you were going to have time Friday to clean the kitchen for our sons 5th birthday party but you ignored it. I came home from work with ingredients to make a nice meal to find you on the couch playing video games. You don't work, you don't clean, you don't go shopping for groceries, you rarely cook anything unless the directions say "preheat the oven and insert frozen food product" (I think the only exception would be spaghetti or macaroni and cheese), you do no yard work, rarely take out the garbage, lately you haven't been helping me collect the garbage around our mess of a house to fill the garbage and recycling containers, and I have argued with you for the last 10 years that I just want some damn help with the dishes. Your response being, "I don't like doing dishes". I'm sick of talking about it, so you get passive aggressive behavior instead. Who the fuck does like doing dishes? I work full time and have to get off work, go grocery shopping, come home cook supper, get maybe an hour to play a video game or watch a television show before putting the kids to bed (by myself a lot lately). All because when I get home, you are on the computer all night long because you, "aren't a morning person and can't do schoolwork in the before noon". You take ONE CLASS AT A TIME! There should be plenty of time in your day to spend a fucking half hour cleaning a few dishes before I have 3 hours worth of dishes at the end of the week! I know you do laundry for all of us (usually just yourself and the kids), then ball it up in a basket, then once a month go through it and sort it, put it back into laundry baskets surrounding our bed and occasionally hang some up. I mostly do my own laundry and live out of a laundry basket through the week. So thanks for all of your help. No offense... just venting.