My problem is I know some one that has made fake rape claims. I do not personally know any one who was rapped (I might and they do not talk about it).

The person I know that made fake claims was an ex and she lied about everything. Would act sweet and honest but the more you got to know her the more you could tell she was making stuff up.

Here is a sample of stuff she lied about: her mother had died and told this to her kids this, that her brother had his kids taken away because he sexually assaulted them (They were not and he didn't) that her brother died (didn't). That different people had been arrested, she would make up that her ex was stalking her and in town (She would pick a car driving around and tell people "oh my God that's my ex and he's drove around here a few times" this people had never meet her ex so they would not know). Lied about one of the kids father's. She would steal from every one that tried to help her. Also turns out she was on drugs. She said I moved out of my own house and moved in with my dad, she also said my dad was going to give her my house (not sure how that works senince I own it out right). Would separate me from friends and family and was controlling. She also made up that she had cancer( would ask people to drop her off at hospital walk inside when they drove away she would come out and have some one eles pick her up and tell them she just got done have chemotherapy)

So this is only personal experience but that's what I have to go off of for myself. Lucky she never claimed I did any thing ( that I know of, she probably told some one I rapped her).

So if some one like this claims you rapped them it can easily destroy you in a small town.

I was dumb and didn't realize some of this for a long time also she used her kids that I loved as a way to stay. This relationship completely messed me up and I don't see how I can be in another one again. Every relationship after this has failed because of stuff that happened here and mental problems it has caused me with relationships. Even if I try to explain why I have a hard time getting close women they do not seem to understand and think it's some thing to do with me not liking them.