3. It’s No ones business. You don’t have to make a declaration about your personal life. Just know that you run the risk of outing yourself if you have any casual sex in your immediate area, a potential partner might be more cavalier about who knows.

2. It’s a concern. It’s something to discuss with a potential partner. If someone isn’t cool discussing it then it’s probably something to be wary of.

You size ppl up each step of the process. No one wants to get sick, and they’re probably doing the same to you. The more camaraderie you have before sleeping with someone, the better you’ll both be about it.

There’s other riskier options too, like a Bath house or a Bar, but even there, consent and protection are encouraged and accepted.

1. There’s different levels to being Bi. Some are interested in Romance and some are just into the sex aspect. Those are things I’d shore up, or be open about as you navigate. I don’t like kissing dudes, for example. Figure out where you want to begin and communicate that.

With Women, to me, there’s a natural flow with intimacy. You know what to do, and then as you grow closer, you communicate and explore. With dudes, you communicate what you like and don’t like from the git go, and maybe some things you might wanna try as you go along. Reciprocation is big. Some dudes are selfish, ime.

With what you described about your situation, where you live, and having kids around, I’d probably consider a destination to explore. Do some searching before you get there, maybe put something out on Reddit. Idk. Being outed can make serious waves. Have fun too.