This is a very loaded question, so let me begin by saying you're correct to an extent, a lot of guys here subconsciously think that they can woo the girls that ask questions here. However there's likely also the explanation that they're following general trends on Reddit. (see: circlejerks)

But a trend like saying "flat is justice" or whatever the hell wouldn't come about if people didn't actually believe it, and it's kinda stupid really that out of everything you chose those two examples at the bottom. Most people don't really have anything against those things to begin with, and some people do explicitly look for them.

As for cuddles and personality, would you want to be in a relationship where the person you're with is attractive but you two have nothing in common? People can like other people who aren't conventionally attractive. There's an entire trope for that even. Now the cuddles thing is probably the only thing you said that has any actual merit, so congrats for that.

tldr if you want to complain just do that instead of posing it as a question