I had one of those. Met on OKC, we made out early on but nothing beyond that. Would hang out every now and then and just as I was forgetting about him, I'd get a random text and we'd start up again just the same. Finally he moved away. I sent him a note along the lines of "too bad we never slept together." He professed surprise (I mean duh) - and scheduled a three day weekend meet up just to consummate. ... He sucked in bed. Though he was quite practiced in shibari (my first experience and it was interesting), the actual sex was lame and here he was staying in my house for three days. (And I got bored of him being there after the first day or so.) I couldn't even look him in the eye while he was fucking me, finally I broke out the magic wand and just did my thing regardless of what he was doing (can I get an AMEN from the women on here). I got off and I'm sure he thought it was his doing - when I dropped him off at the airport, told him that the weekend I had "finally gotten him out of my system" and that I wouldn't be in touch since he had moved.

I still get random texts from him, but never respond. I finally caught the car...