Honestly, I met my partner when we used to work together at McDonalds. I had no intention of finding a BDSM relationship at that time, although it was definitely something I was interested in. I was drawn to his smile and his charisma and eventually asked him out. After a few years, I started talking to him about my needs and wants and he was kind of unsure, but willing to try (I’m his first sexual partner so there was just a lot of firsts for him). After another year or so, he started getting more comfortable in bed and just started naturally moving his dominance to other areas of life. Then I started talking to him about upping it and going for Total Power Exchange and he got pretty excited over that. So we did that for a while and then moved into some of my other kinks like CNC.

Now after 5 years, we’re in a full-time Master/Slave relationship and loving every moment of it.