No. The issue is that he is knowingly asking people who are NOT vaccinated to get on a PLANE for HIS bachelor party, when there are safer alternatives in terms of time and risk level for those NOT vaccinated. He is the one asking people to make that sacrifice for him.

If people don’t feel comfortable going to my wedding, that’s fine. Everyone there has to either be vaccinated or test negative just to enter in the first place, so judge all you want, but there is a huge difference between asking people to attend a well-planned event that strictly follows safety guideline vs a free-for-all.

But somehow it’s okay for him to guilt my fiancé into attending this party? This is his brother. He wants him there. So yes, my fiancé feels torn.

The numbers are actually trending upwards in over 20 states but keep telling yourself that if it helps you sleep at night! The new variants pose a huge threat! But just ignore that. That’s clearly what you’re determined to do.

YOU were not the person on the phone just yesterday with a college kid who decided to go party and then hop on 3 flights during his infectious period! YOU are not the person figuring out the flight information down to the seat for these people. YOU aren’t having these conversations. You just say “it’s getting better”.

And yes, I do expect BIL to respect my wedding that I have planned 3 times, and spent endless energy and money and time on doing so. His bachelor party is not under financial contracts, he didn’t make down-payments on it, and he can do it any other weekend he damn well pleases.