A good friend of mine was recently DFd in absentia. Hadn't been to a meeting in four years.

I left 5 months ago notified my language groups only elder that I don’t believe it anymore and therefore he will no longer see me at meetings. Basically I have been shunned but not officially dfed but recently it occurred to me that I want copies that he has of my DPA card to b destroyed since they no longer honor my wishes towards blood. I texted him to request that he mail the copies to me. Long story short he manipulated the situation to try to get me to come to and elders meeting at the kh twice. I have been cordially invited to a court martial lol. I told him there’s no reason I need to come to the kh to get this document just mail it to me lol. Then he wanted me to come sign a letter that I had made requesting my DPA. So I was like nevermind I just made a current DPA to override any previous ones since it’s so much effort to destroy older copies in their possession. My question is can they disfellowship me just for defying their annoying manipulative requests or will they?

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