If I was in a room with a mixed group of people, and I was talking to a group of women, and I said "alright ladies" and you came across the room and accused me of misgendering people because there are also men in the room, I'm going to think you're an idiot.

So when you come into this thread where I specifically addressed ladies, accusing me, a trans person, for misgendering you, when I wasn't even talking to you, it's really hard for me to not question your sanity.

I understand that a lot of trans men feel poorly represented, but don't come on my post trying to turn it into your battleground when the thread never had anything to do with trans men. You might as well go through every post that doesn't specifically mention trans men and accuse them of not representing you enough.

I've already had a shitty week and the last thing I need is for someone to accuse me of misgendering someone over something so incredibly stupid. I have friends that are trans men. I work for a trans man. Don't accuse me of misgendering trans men when I wasn't addressing you at all. Save it for the bigots.