I can empathize with you, but I advise you to look at things from a more optimistic perspective. You are letting your frustrations manifest and there's nothing more unattractive than an insecure person. It happens to the best of us and I will attest that being an Asian man in the dating scene can be rough. I'm completely aware of the issues we face, but there is absolutely nothing to be ashamed of for being a virgin.

I've only lived in small rural areas my entire life. I'm talking about one percent Asian population and I didn't lose my virginity until earlier this year (I turned thirty-one today). I started dating about a year and a half ago and have met and been out with over two dozen women.. again, let me reiterate that I'm basically the only Asian out here.

No one will love you if you can't even love yourself. I made a lot of changes in my life which included a full body transformation as well as deep introspection before I even considered dating. My goal was to be so attractive that people no longer saw or cared about my ethnicity.

I sent you a PM if you want to talk to me one on one.