That’s the big clue. She’s only dealing with men who have one or more other women courting/dating them at any time. What percentage of single men does she think this represents? I don’t blame her because this small minority will also be the boldest and most likely to hit her up convincingly. But from what I’m seeing, the problems women have lie with the vast cohort of men who aren’t even showing up on the dating scene. Maybe other factors mean they can’t show up. Rather than waiting for society to stop leaving them behind, the post-feminism era woman might have digging for hidden gems. Which, I realise, is a very unnatural role for her.