3. How can I (37M) help improve a dead bedroom with my wife (48F)

How can I (37M) help improve a dead bedroom with my wife (48F)

You are so far off it's not funny. I'm the one bringing the kids to sports, appointmengs, friends houses, so she's not stressed. I'm the one that brought her mom to Dr appointments and working at night when my wife is sleeping to make up for missed time. I bought her a day pass to a spa, she never went and let it expire. Encourage her bookclub and cook 3 course meals for them, then take the kids out of the house.

I'm affectionate daily without asking for sex and I do NOT badger her. I offer massages with me fully clothed, no expectations, and get shot down.

I was looking for helpful suggestions, not to be attacked. Thank you for your non-constructive criticism.

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