How to cope with jealousy in a LDR?

  • our time difference is only 1 hour (I'm 1 hour ahead).
  • on a daily basis I would say we usually message for about 2 hours then play games together/talk for about 2 hours until I have to go to bed and longer on weekends because I can stay up until later then.
  • I usually go to sleep around 0:00 (11pm his time) and wake up around 8am. In the weekend I often stay up late, until around 3am. His sleeping schedule is all over the place, sometimes he sleeps during the day, sometimes during the night. Lately, he often doesn't sleep until around 6am or sometimes even not until 9am and he sleeps all day.
  • I want him to fix his daily routine because he has health issues/insomnia and I want him to get better. I feel like he'll never feel better until he starts working on this.
  • if he fixed his daily routine, we'd be able to stay in touch during the day more. Now we almost exclusively have contact in the evening, just because he's asleep during the day.
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