Heartbreak is never easy. For me, the hardest thing to give up was the hope for the future. When my partner deactivates & triggers me over & over & over again - and I continue to go back over & over & over again. Then it's on me. He may be a great man, but I gotta tell you - the world is full of really great men & u will most definitely find another one! I had to come to see it differently: how about this - he just lost the Best Woman he'll ever know!!? Shift your mindset from what you've lost & come to know your worth - see what he lost! Be strong - things happen for a reason. Perhaps someone with a different style who doesn't trigger you so much will be a better match for you anyway! Let it go, let it go, be open to what will come!