It is a sewing subreddit so probably not the best place to talk about world hunger, I am sure there is sub reddit for this. If this is in reference to my first world problems remark, then this is because you have made it sound like this is a major life issue, because of how you talked about the seamstress and saying you don't want to wait. Even though you have already been given the advice and said you will try it you still went on about the hem. Which mad it come across like this was a major issue.

Yes you can ask for help but your other comments about this even after been given advice, is the reason why I said nobody would notice. You say it looks weird to you, that's, it was coming across as if you were worried about other people noticing rather than it just something that is bothering you.

I hope it works out for you in the end and it matches a little better for you. I would however do a tester on Jean fabric before doing it on the original as you can't undo once the bleach goes on. Because if you don't get it the way you want it, then if this looks weird now it could look weirder for you after you are done. Do a tester so you can try different ways to apply it to get what you are looking for.