The fact that I created THIS particular reddit two months ago is not an indication of how long I’ve been doing this and that’s my point. I’ve been doing “this” in its various forms for ten years. However, it’s not something I share with anyone and the people in my life don’t know I do it so I don’t have relationships with other people in the industry. And I’m pretty sure I’m not the only one with those circumstances. And I get it! I’ve been stalked, harassed, my child’s name brought into the aggressive threatening texts from a harasser. I’ve been around but I shouldn’t have to prove that in order to simply BE TOLD where to find these or any other resources especially when it comes to safety. I even said in my post I understand the secrecy and if it has to be that way because there’s no other option just tell us which ones you’ve tried that DON’T work. I never said post the actual lists in a public place where dickhead hobbyists and LE can find them no one is suggesting that.