Telling people that in order to enact change in your life you have to create that change and take responsibility for how you respond to situations instead of just expecting the world to change is not narcissism. If you want change then you will have to understand that you have to be the change instead of giving all of your power away. Do you want better rights for people in the world? Stop expecting that to happen on its own and saying “the world should just change.” You have to do actually do something in order to contribute to a better world. Go fight for those rights.

Do you want to be in healthier relationships? Leave the unhealthy relationships that you’re in, go build relationships with people who are capable of having great relationships, and start educations others on importance of safe boundaries, healthy communication, etc.

Take responsibility for your actions/response and be the change you want to see in the world.

The OPs post was definitely harsh, lacking empathy, and not worded very clearly, but it wasn’t narcissistic. Narcissism is generally an obsession with the self and and self centeredness in an unhealthy way, and this is just trying to tell people that taking responsibility for the way they react will help themselves immensely.