I wish you take all female ideologies out of your brain, and just believe that men like to be around feminine energy and and simply satisfy sexual urges and explore what excites them

Men would literally smells the chair after a hot woman sat on it, just because it’s not gay to do so. It might be nasty or creepy but it’s not gay to do so.

I’m sure you make him really happy and so on

And from a man perspective he is living the life and so on.

And you control access to sex, unless you think patriarchy is involve and him being in a position of “power” is what led you to become kinky as fuck with him

But again bottom line

Men like girls

I should say women but but girls

To me the term woman just means female body and female ego

And girl is everything girl be it cute and so on

It would be better if he didn’t have to be ashamed of you being younger than him.

Looking for a red flag is so annoying to me.

I don’t understand what commitment is to people like you.

Okay he has a red flag and undoubtedly so becuase no one is perfect

What matters most is trust and I can tell there is a lot of trust between you two becuase you allow him to be kinky with you.

If you knew how to be clever with your sexual energy and so on, he wouldn’t have to be wanting to do those kinky things you are worried about

And a lot of men don’t have sex till later in life when they become self made or till they give up and pay for hookers

You should really consider what you actually want I. Life. He will marry you if you showcase what a perfect wife you can be and give you babies immediately as well

But you have to showcase it

Right now to me you both are benefiting in this relationship and the red flags that you are worried about is just you being unaware

That the realtionship you are having with this man is just one where you both benefit

You asking why a 32 year old man will sleep with a 20 year old

Is frankly a stupid question.

But I’ll answer it. 1st you are in your prime and highly attractive and 2 being younger and him being older a naturally dynamic of gender roles are displayed well portrayed better being the man is more dominant and the woman not so much so and

Older women and older people in general are to set in there ways.

It would have been to difficult for him to get a older woman to do what you are doing sexually with him.

You sound like a keeper but if you poison your mind with dumb shit you will just be annoying to be around. The reason I’m saying that is I been reading women comments on YouTube and to me

A lot of women are seriously trying self destruct or like destroy themselves online or something responding to every troll and so on like a idiot and for what?

It’s like no wonder women hate men so much because they love to argue with men.

But bottom line

You should try to talk smarter with him in a way that’s makes your realtionship grow to a more meaningful one and one where you understand more and more about the the realtionship at play

Like what if you reveal your age to his friend what will they say how would he feel?

You should ask

But if you want to find a red flag and follow your emotion and intuition and so on and exit the realtionship

You can do so

But please please please don’t have this realtionship you having with this man influence your future realtionships after

Like don’t expect your next man to compare to him

It’s a new love or fling or what ever treat it as such and enjoy it to fullest by being present in said fling or say new relationship

And sorry if I came off rude or mean or sexist in anyway

Not my intention