I (M25) called my SO (F24) of 7 years out on a lie. She has since stopped talking to me for five days now and is missing my sister's wedding. Somehow, though, I'm the badguy and needs to apologize. Should I, just to clear the air?

You're too kind. Thank you for the help, and for pointing me in the right direction. I'll try and come up with something to post over there.

It would be nice to have someone to talk to about this. I've tried in-person and online therapy and ended up coming out of both of them feeling more like a test subject than a human being. And yeah, you're right! I'm from the US, and the only men's support group within 100 miles of me is for men who are abusers and not the abused.

I'd rather not think about that fact if I'm being honest.

Either way, thank you. I'll probably delete all of this too, but it means a lot that you were willing to talk to me about this.

Have a good one!

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