[30/M] I'm in love with my bi roomate (30/F)

Awww hey robot, so glad to hear it's working out for you. Wow, you talked for hours , and then all of a sudden there is distance? You opened up a part that you closed off for her and now you are dumbfounded? Oh must be rough. I say , you didn't really want to see the truth in the first place and on some level you are scared of being with someone that really wants you. She always wanted to be physical with you because you don't move 1300 miles to be with someone that you don't like. I say that your other ex, who you disrespected during this new "roommate " strictly business process; told you what the fuck was going on but you refused to see. I say it's karma and you get what you get and good luck on your broken heart because you deserve it.I hope you are tormented beyond belief. I hope no matter how nice you are or understanding, how you try to make her happy, or the personal sacrifices you make for her, I hope it's never good enough because you are a pawn to her. I hope you question every conversation you ever had and rethink every choice you made and wonder where you went wrong. I hope she gives you a fucking speech about how it's not you , but it's her. I hope she fucking uses you over and over again for sex and plays with your emotions and then tells you she needs space and that she thought that you two could be destined 4ever but then her mind just went in another direction and that you are just a square peg and a round hole. I hope you waste days and hours and minutes of your life catering to her and it's alll pointless and then MAYBE you will learn. I don't know how long that lease is you had her sign because you "needed certainty" but whew good luck with that. PS she's right you are pretty but your other ex used to tell you how great you were and awesome and you told her you were an asshole and a douchebag. Too bad she didn't believe you sooner.

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