Only thing I see deleted on any frontpage is this:

https://www.metafilter.com/196302/Norah-Vincent-RIP

Which is interesting as the NYT obituary didn't mention anything about the deletion reason and I see only one comment that brought up her issues. The whole thing is weird as she posed as a man, wrote a book, is a lesbian, then committed suicide in Switzerland? It looks like she had a lot of issues to explore and would have been an interesting conversation. I didn't know we can't even discuss how someone might themselves not be comfortable in their own body and hated the thing they were? Perhaps even to the point of suicide?