<p>Um, are you me? Seriously, I've never met anyone with the same fucking problem. I got off my cell to type this on my computer, because I wish I had the balls to realize this a while ago. Leave now. </p>

<p>I am dating my ex now. Our only real issue was his communication. Not normal, 'whoops i forgot to text you back once' shit. But the kind of shit your dude pulled: disappearing for days, totally ignoring me, but somehow able to talk to/hang out with his friends.. Oh, and we were together for seven years. Seven fucking years, and he can't treat me like his best friend. He blew me off once again the other night and I finally let him have it. You cannot be treated like that. </p> <p>If this is a consistent pattern, he probably won't change any time soon. We are both 26, have known each other since middle school. He is a great guy, and all of his friends love him. He's one of those guys who seems to run into someone he knows everywhere you go. Which makes it so much more difficult to walk away--what did I do to make him treat me like this? Why doesn't he do this to this other friends? </p> <p>It finally hit me, though. I didn't do anything. That is how he is choosing to treat me. Weather its because he's comfortable with me or whatever it is, I'm done justifying his actions. I haven't heard back from him since I told him off (yep, it was a text. idgaf, he makes it impossible to communicate with him on my terms literally ever), and I don't really want to right now. I'm treating myself to a day of being a bad bitch and treating myself very nicely--doing my nails, day drinking, smoking, and dancing around in my underpants with my dog. Do the same. Do NOT, under any circumstances, spend any more time worrying about why he isn't calling or talking to you. </p> Please please message me if you want to talk. This is such a uniquely painful situation, and friends who have never been are not always not too helpful.
Chin up, buttercup. :)