This makes me really emotional because it happened to me and bf as teens too. I could extensively go on about the dangers of porn use, as I lived through it and still feel haunted by it, but I really don’t want to go back into all that.

Just please. Try cutting back. Try jerking off to pictures of your gf? Or imaging the two of you together? It’s crazy to me how common it is now for young young men to be so conditioned by pixels that so many struggle with having a real, functional relationship. Now, it could be some other things like first time nerves, but if in some time your 17 year old self still isn’t excited enough by a real girl you love playing with your junk, I really think you should look at your porn habits. Please, this can be extremely damaging to the female partner as well.