You can actually test for over 400 different conditions if you’re doing PGM. If it’s a natural birth you can test your own genetics to see the likely hood of xyz being passed.

Occasionally on twoxchromosomes you’ll see people who abort their babies because the doctor let them know their babies won’t have a good life.

Adoption is an option too.

There is nothing wrong with giving up a baby you know in your heart you can’t care for physically, mentally, and financially.

The decent thing to do would be to give it up for adoption / abort if you can’t handle it before you become a shitty parent.

There’s nothing wrong with that.