Really? No ones done the math? 23-10 = 13.

Best case Op, regardless of consent he found the equivalent of CP on your computer, and worse for someone he cares about. To see the 13 year old version of you being banged regardless of by who or how many is probably disturbing since (hopefully) he met you after you had finished physically developing/ we’re a legal adult.

Side note, why are there so many over 35 year old dudes with 21/22/23 year old girls in this sub so much. Most of these guys are AH by default because thy shouldn’t be chasing girls who have barely left school and whose brains haven’t even scientifically finished developing yet. It’s predatory. They want to get them young so they can mold them, and don’t know any better than to put up with all the AH/manipulative stuff we keep seeing. so worst case he’s upset that his young goods were “spoiled” by someone else. Gross in general. But serves him right Karma wise for trying to beat the system.

You are not the AH, but maybe you shouldn’t have married someone nearly old enough to have conceived you either. Eww.