This honestly reads like one of the most adult posts on this subreddit lol. A lot of times people get mad when they come to the realization na may sex life yung partners nila before them.

I’m…not going to pass judgment on whether you looking at your partner’s phone was right or wrong, though. But, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with comparing yourself sa kanya, especially if you’ve found confidence and reassurance in it, then great!

Maybe you’re also just getting excited about the thought na other people do find your boyfriend hot and want to fuck him (and in this case did have hot sex with him). Parang validation na lang rin sa choice mo of a partner.