I agree with everything you said up until this point, doesn’t this sound dangerously like Universalism or Inclusivism?
I understand the desire for all to be saved, I have that as well. However, I am not the One being sinned against and therefore can not understand the full depth of the rebellion against our Creator.
Ultimately God is sovereign over His own creation and can do with it as He pleases. He is God, we are not.