I'm trans and would not ever take my kids to drag shows or allow them to see any media that was adult in nature. They're too young to understand things of that nature and they don't need to be exposed to such things. Instead I focus on their education and hobbies that interest them, when they're old enough to understand things like gender identity I'll be more than willing to explain to them why I identify the way I do but such things are unimportant and honestly inappropriate when they are young. It's not about being prude, but rather raising your kids in a way that'll give them a future and not warp or pervert their minds through early sexual exposure.