I am of the firm belief that the saying a cheater is always a cheater is BS. Don’t get me wrong I don’t condone cheating and have never cheated, which I always like to put in a post as a disclaimer. With that being said, sometimes sure people just suck and lack the ability to feel guilt or can compartmentalize it enough so that they can operate as normal. However, sometimes people are genuinely unhappy and don’t know how to leave their situations and have true intentions but mess up. It depends on the person and the situation. Not saying a wrong makes a right or anything. But it happens and it depends. People who brag are assholes. If you actively choose to cheat and hurt people, that’s not good for obvious reasons. People are hard. Life is hard. Therefor this is a loaded question. I know many great people who have cheated before. This doesn’t make them less of a great person. I also know some people who are serial cheaters and are not the best people. Sometimes there’s a grey area. I dunno.