[PIV difficulties] Hard to feel girlfriend's vagina during PIV sex

She has been doing kegals for a month? But it still hasn't changed, then i doubt it will change any time soon, but I'm not sure, it might help if she keeps doing it..

Have you considered anal? I know it's not a long term solution and not a great solution at all, but it could be pleasurable for the both of you.

If you can't see this getting any better because you hate the idea of no orgasms during PIV, then i guess it's only fair for you to break up with her, for both of your sakes. I doubt she would be to happy with having sex with someone who basically doesn't enjoy it.

It's not her fault she's loose, but it's not your fault you can't get past the fact you aren't gaining anything from it. You have every right to want to end this, but i do feel quite sorry for her.

In reality, if you don't enjoy sex with her, and if sex is too important for you to just move on from this and be with her anyway, then the only solution is to break up. Please do it lightly for her sake, I doubt she would enjoy getting told her vagina is too loose and the relationship can't work because of this. Then again, i can see you have thought about her feelings as you haven't mentioned this to her. Which is a good move.

I know people think the truth is better but to make someone insecure with the tightness of their vagina it's not the best thing to do.

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