Damn, this is almost like you read my mind. I think most of the young guys who are into old men struggle with the same.

I am a year older than you are, but with exactly the same fears. I am currently in a relationship (I have posted about it yesterday actually) with a 49 year old man. There is no point of talking about this as the relationship is pretty much dead.

My point is, especially now that I am to look towards my future, I kind of ask myself the same questions. I would consider looking for someone in his 30s, that would not be a huge age gap, but the problem is that I am simply not interested. I like older guys, 50+, which sucks if you are young man and want to plan a future together, get married, buy a house, have kids... which is want I want.

Any advice on this kind of thing? Do you also think about these things too with your significant other and have you talked about it with each other before?

He barely talked about it as, to be honest, it is not easy when you are happily partnered and want to spend as much time as possible together and all that. It is a topic that you just don't want to talk about, at least in out case. He just mentioned once that if something ever happened to him, he was going to make sure that I would be taken care of. And that was it pretty much.