Did you actually read what I said?
So, overtime I have felt the effects of infantilization. I don't like it and would like to change it as much as possible. I cant control how other people perceive me and react to me.
I never said my life was "hard". These are the conditions of my life, they bother me as being ME and I believe I can resolve them. A lot of you guys are short and laugh it off. I don't want to laugh it off. How hard is it to assimilate into another english speaking culture, when you enjoy learning about other cultures, and know that they treat foreigners, especially white men, well?
But, you will never overcome the initial bias from people, subconscious or conscious within america when you look like a teenager, without communicating with them. From a superficial standpoint, you will never overcome it, initially.
All i have to do is move, and the quality of women I can attract, immediately changes and improves.
If you read what I said, I believe the issues I am taking concern with would change dramatically by moving, its not worth the time and effort within the US. Thats the whole point of the post. I'm not saying its impossible, I'm saying that difficult situations aren't always worth it. Why would you work 10 hours to afford a product, when you can work 2 hours and buy the same product from a different retailer?
I can take my money, live very well in the phillipines off less money than I spend here in my monthly expenses, travel and study, and probably fuck hotter woman, that most likely will have values that are more congruent to mine, than the average american women. I'm talking about on a whole, not individually. I'm aware people are not the same everywhere, I'm talking about the effects of culture, a culture that wasn't completely colonized by western america.