Quick Questions: February 01, 2023

I'm currently going through the admissions process with grad programs, and would really like advice if anyone has the time. There's three schools that have been interested in me so far:

School A has fully admitted me to their program and graduate school with a TA position with full funding. This was a top 3 choice for me.

School B sent an email saying that I seem like a good fit for their program and would like me to visit their campus in a few weeks. Not a formal acceptance, but sounds like one might be coming. This was originally my top choice school.

School C reached out and said they will be sending a formal acceptance letter this week. Their program seems well structured and the faculty member I met was very friendly.

On paper, school C is the highest ranked of the three, followed by A, and then closely B. However, based on location preferences I'm strongly leaning away from C since it's on the opposite side of the country and I'd prefer to stay within driving distance of my parents, which is possible with both A and B.

Since looking more into A, I believe that they are the best fit overall, and my recommendation letter writers basically said that all three are great choices and I couldn't go wrong with any of them. I'm a bit worried about fully commiting before visiting though. I'd like to at least see both B and A before deciding.

I'm still not "officially" admitted to B, so I'm worried about turning down C right away. Is this unfair? I'd hate for someone else to miss a spot at C because I was waiting to hear back from B.

I'm honestly starting to get stressed by this decision. My gut feeling is that A is the school for me, but its hard to fully commit to that before I've visited the campus or even seen B / C either. I also feel guilty even being stressed by this decision- several of my friends haven't gotten acceptances yet and are just hoping to hear from at least one school. Sorry for the long rant-y post, I appreciate any input you all have.

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